Loving One Another
Love is at the very heart of what it means to follow Jesus. In this part of the series, we dive into the scriptural foundation for loving one another as Christ has loved us and what it looks like to live this out in our daily lives. Let’s explore John 13:34-35 and Romans 12:10 to understand and apply this essential commandment.
Breaking Down John 13:34-35
Jesus said, “So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.” (John 13:34-35, NLT)
What Does “Commandment” Mean?
The word “commandment” signifies an authoritative order, not a suggestion. Jesus is not merely offering advice—He is issuing a directive to His followers. To be a fully devoted disciple of Christ, loving one another is not optional; it is required.
What Type of Love Is This?
When Jesus says, “love each other,” the Greek word used is agapē, which refers to selfless, sacrificial love. This is not based on emotions or convenience but on a choice to put others before ourselves. It is a love that seeks the highest good of others, even at a personal cost.
“As I Loved You”
The phrase “as I loved you” takes this command to another level. Jesus demonstrated His love through humility, sacrifice, and unconditional acceptance. From washing His disciples’ feet to dying on the cross, Jesus’ love was the ultimate example of agapē. He calls us to love others with the same depth and commitment.
“Prove to the World”
The second part of this verse underscores the purpose of this command: “Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.” The way we love others is a testimony to the world of Christ’s transformative power. It is through our love that the world recognizes we belong to Him.
To truly follow Jesus, we must love as He loves. It’s not a suggestion; it’s a command. Loving others is the defining mark of a disciple.
Breaking Down Romans 12:10
Paul writes, “Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other.” (Romans 12:10, NLT)
What Is “Genuine Affection”?
The Greek word used for “genuine affection” is philostorgos, which refers to a tender, familial love. This means we are to care for one another as family, with authenticity and warmth. Genuine affection is not forced or superficial but comes from a sincere heart. It looks like being present in each other’s lives, listening, and showing empathy.
“Take Delight in Honoring Each Other”
The phrase “take delight” implies joy and intentionality. Honoring others means putting their needs, desires, and well-being ahead of our own. It is about recognizing the value of others and treating them with respect and dignity. Taking delight in honoring others reflects a heart of humility and love.
Practical Tips for Loving and Honoring One Another
- Practice Active Listening
Give others your full attention when they speak. Listening shows that you value them. - Show Acts of Kindness
Small gestures like writing a note, offering help, or giving a compliment can go a long way in expressing love. - Pray for One Another
Commit to praying for the needs and concerns of others regularly. - Forgive Quickly
Let go of grudges and extend forgiveness, even when it’s hard. - Celebrate Others’ Successes
Be genuinely happy for the blessings and achievements of others. - Offer Encouragement
Speak words that uplift and inspire, especially during difficult times. - Be Humble
Put others’ needs before your own without seeking recognition or reward. - Serve Joyfully
Look for opportunities to serve others, whether in your church, community, or family.
Conclusion to Loving One Another
Loving one another is at the core of what it means to follow Jesus. It is a command, not an option. When we love others with genuine affection and honor them with joy, we reflect Christ’s love and glorify Him in the process. Let’s commit to loving as Jesus loved and making our love a testimony to the world.
Links to Other Parts of This Series
- Series Introduction: Fellowship in Christ: A Plan for Building Christian Community
- Part 1: Understanding the Importance of Fellowship
- Poem: The Joy of Fellowship
- Poem: Fellowship’s Embrace
- Poem: Love in Action
Call to Action
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