Suffering and Sanctification: Finding Purpose in the Pain
How God uses life’s hardest moments to grow our faith and shape our character.
When life hurts, the last thing we want to hear is that God can use our suffering for good.
Yet the truth of suffering and sanctification is one of the most powerful and personal lessons in the Christian life.
Sanctification doesn’t happen when everything is easy—it grows when everything isn’t.
This is the Spirit’s ongoing work of shaping us into the image of Jesus.
What Sanctification Really Means
Sanctification means being made holy—formed into Christlikeness by the Holy Spirit.
We don’t achieve it; God works it in us as we walk in trust and obedience.
Paul explains it in Romans 5:3–5 (NLT):
“We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance.
And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation.”
And James 1:2–4 (NLT) adds,
“When troubles of any kind come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy.
For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow.”
God uses hard things to refine endurance, strengthen character, and anchor hope in Him.
Suffering and Sanctification in My Own Life
When my wife, Wendy, went home to be with the Lord, I learned that sanctification isn’t just a doctrine—it’s a daily reality.
Grief brought a kind of ache words can’t reach, yet God met me through my church family.
They carried me, comforted me, and reminded me that shared sorrow becomes lighter in community.
Through that season I learned sanctification isn’t about “moving on”—it’s about growing through.
God used what broke me to deepen compassion, strengthen prayer, and teach dependence on Christ.
What I Learned Writing a Study on the Holy Spirit
After Wendy’s passing I wrote and taught a 13-week Bible study on the Holy Spirit.
Months of research and teaching gave me excellent head knowledge, but I still wasn’t living Spirit-filled.
So I began praying, “Lord, fill me with Your Spirit. Help me see where You’re working, and give me courage to join You.”
Slowly I started noticing holy nudges—the quiet prompts to pray, speak, act, wait, or yield.
That shift didn’t happen overnight, and the work isn’t complete.
Now I see that this slow, steady transformation is sanctification in action—the Spirit patiently shaping me, one obedient step at a time.
Why God Uses Suffering to Sanctify Us
We naturally crave relief; God aims for renewal.
Relief fades when circumstances change. Renewal endures because God changes us from the inside out.
Suffering and sanctification intertwine because pain tests what we believe and reveals who we’re becoming.
When faith costs comfort, certainty, or control, it grows strong.
Your trials today may be the tools God is using to prepare tomorrow’s purpose.
How to Respond When You’re in the Fire
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Surrender Instead of Struggle. Ask, “Father, what are You teaching me here?”
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Stay Faithful. Keep showing up in prayer, community, and obedience—even when you don’t feel it.
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Shine Through the Struggle. Let endurance point others to Christ and the hope found in Him.
Finding Hope in the Process
Maybe you’re in a refining season—grief, disappointment, delay.
Take heart—God hasn’t forgotten you. He’s working in ways you can’t yet see.
Your pain is not pointless; He’s growing endurance, character, and hope.
That’s the mystery and mercy of suffering and sanctification: God doesn’t just patch what’s broken—He transforms it into something strong, steadfast, and new.
Final Encouragement
If you’re walking through a storm, hold tight.
God is not punishing you; He is preparing you.
He has not abandoned you; He abides with you.
One day, you’ll look back and see that through the suffering, He was sanctifying your heart.
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