The Power of Presence: Being There Matters

In part three of this series, The Sacred Roles of Aunts and Uncles in Discipleship, we explored the unique ways aunts and uncles can disciple their nieces and nephews. Today, I want to dive deeper into one critical aspect of that role: the power of presence.

Being there—really being present—is one of the greatest gifts you can give a child. It’s not just about showing up; it’s about making every moment count. My nieces and nephews know they are always welcome at my house, whether they’re stopping by for a visit, a quick chat, or to go for a drive in the convertible.

A bald, chubby man in his 60s sits in the audience, watching his 12-year-old niece with long dark brown hair and glasses sing passionately on stage during an elementary school choir concert. — A proud uncle in the audience, soaking in the heartfelt melodies of his talented niece. 🎶💖

Showing Up for Their Moments

Whether it’s a football game, a choir concert, or a church event, I make it a priority to be there. I’ll never forget sitting in the stands, cheering loudly as my nephew finally got in the game. Or the pride I felt watching my niece sing her heart out during her concert choir performance or how hard she cheers at her games. Those moments are unforgettable—not just for me but for them too.

Birthdays and holidays hold a special place in my heart. Gathering around the table, sharing laughs, and building memories make these celebrations priceless. Just last year, my youngest nephew told me his favorite thing about Christmas wasn’t the presents but “hanging out with Uncle Raymond.” Moments like that remind me how much my presence matters.

A 9-year-old boy with medium blonde hair opens his birthday presents, a Dallas Mavericks t-shirt and a telescope, while his bald, chubby uncle in his 60s watches with a proud smile. The room is decorated with colorful balloons and party decorations. — Celebrating a special day! 🎉 A telescope for dreaming big and a Mavericks t-shirt for cheering on the game—memories made with family love. 🎁💙

Everyday Presence Matters Too

The power of presence is not just about the big events. The little, everyday moments are just as powerful. Sometimes, it’s a spontaneous visit to my house. Other times, it’s just being a listening ear when they need to vent or talk about life. Sometimes its realizing they are upset and not saying a word but just letting them know I am there for them.

Being available teaches them they are loved and supported no matter what. It shows them that someone they trust will always be there for them, which is exactly what Christ calls us to do as we disciple others.

A bald, chubby man in his 60s kneels at a prayer altar in a church, hands clasped and head bowed, surrounded by the warm glow of candlelight. Symbolically in the background are faint depictions of a 12-year-old girl with glasses, a 12-year-old boy, and a 9-year-old boy, representing his heartfelt prayers for his niece and nephews. — A moment of intercession—a loving uncle lifting his niece and nephews up in prayer. 🙏❤️

The Presence of Christ in Everyday Life

Our presence in their lives reflects the love and presence of Christ. Jesus said in Matthew 18:20 (NLT), “For where two or three gather together as my followers, I am there among them.” When we show up for the children in our lives, we’re modeling Christ’s example of being present, loving, and intentional.

A youth football game in progress with players on the field and an older, chubby, bald man sitting on the sidelines wearing an orange jersey with the name "SPANKY" and the number "50" on the back. — A fun and energetic youth football game with a dedicated fan in the stands, sporting his “SPANKY” jersey.

The Impact of Being Present

When you’re present, you’re creating memories, building trust, and strengthening bonds. They’ll remember your laughter at the Thanksgiving table, your cheers from the stands, and the quiet moments spent together just talking. You’re not just their aunt or uncle—you’re a safe place and a constant in their lives.

As Maya Angelou wisely said, “At the end of the day, people won’t remember what you said or did, they will remember how you made them feel.” Your presence leaves a mark on their hearts, one they’ll carry with them throughout their lives.

Being present is how we show love, support, and encouragement in tangible ways. It’s how we fulfill the role of guiding them toward faith in Christ, one moment at a time.

A cheerful family scene in a modern diner featuring a bald, chubby 62-year-old man wearing jeans and a polo sitting with three children. The 12-year-old niece, wearing a dress and eyeglasses, rolls her eyes playfully. The 12-year-old nephew in khakis and a dress shirt with a tie gestures animatedly while talking. The 9-year-old nephew in a Buffalo Bills jersey with #17 focuses on coloring a placemat. The table is filled with burgers, fries, and milkshakes. — Sharing stories, laughter, and faith over burgers and fries—a family moment filled with love. 🍔❤️

Call to Action

Are you ready to make an impact by being present in your nieces’ and nephews’ lives? Start today. Whether it’s a phone call, attending their next event, or simply opening your home for a visit, your presence matters.

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